Julia Suryakusuma The writer is the author of Julia’s Jihad. She can be reached at www.juliasuryakusuma.com

WHEN I married Tim, my Australian husband, nearly five years ago, I was often asked why I didn’t move to Australia. (Because of our respective work and family obligations, Tim and I have a long-distance commuting marriage, something that is actually not so uncommon these days.)

My answer is very simple: because they don’t have dome