Dewi Anggraeni*

At a dinner hosted by Asia Education Foundation to welcome Indonesian participants of the Australia-Indonesia BRIDGE Project, an Australian teacher-participant proudly told a young Indonesian teacher that he'd just become a grandfather. Very impressed, the Indonesian teacher, himself a young father, said good-humouredly, "Wow, I shall call you Grandpa, then." The Australian teacher looked nonplussed, saying, "No, you won't. You will c