A NEW black Mercedes bearing license plate B 196 MG stopped at the West Indonesia Protestant Church in Jakarta. That Saturday afternoon, February 22, the bride and groom stepped out of the luxury car. The happy couple were Miranda Swaray Goeltom and her erstwhile love, Oloan Pardomuan Siahaan. Oloan, wearing a black suit and a white ulos (a traditional Batak cloth) slung over his shoulder, while Miranda, dressed in pink gown, walked slowly to