He’s thin. His straight hair is cut like a teenager’s. When this 20-year-old youth entered Hotel Mirama’s seminar room in Surabaya last week, he didn’t look any different from his peers. What immediately caught the eye, however, was that Syamsuddin, who came from Bangkalan, Madura, was followed by his four adolescent wives. "Wow, so small but so strong," commented a participant at the seminar on polygamy and extramarital