SELF-assured and vibrant, Shalini Gopalan-Menon, President Director of Interact Carlson Marketing Group, arrived in Indonesia over 16 years ago and hasn't looked back since. Brought up in a sheltered, conservative environment in South India, she studied Fine Arts, surprising herself and her family when she was ranked third at the university she was attending. "It's not like I was hard-working or clever," she says with a disarming smil