SINCE childhood I have never idolized anyone. For me, nothing is “superlative” because once you so consider yourself that means you are “the most of everything” in this world. To me everyone has his pluses and minuses. Therefore, I never have anyone to idolize. But if you ask me whom I love most of the three women I married, I would say I love equally every one of them.

I met Soehesti, my first wife, when we were recuperating from lung a